"...some psychologists think the divorce rate went up after partner dancing went out..."

Hi Edie,
I enjoy reading your articles immensely and have found them all to be very helpful and with much insight into the world of Salsa dancing.

You hit the nail on the head, that here in the States, what we've gained in women's rights, we've lost in femininity, and what was once a strength in women is now seen as weakness. I agree with the other sisters who believe that putting our beauty forth adds to our power as women. It only detracts when we rely solely on our looks and not our brains! We should also be proud of our bodies and want to show them off (in good taste). When I see women of other cultures dance, i.e. Hawaiian, Tahitian, African, Middle Eastern, Brazilian (I think you know where I am going with this) they dance with such confidence and control of their bodies it's beautiful!

And yes, I absolutely agree with you that sexiness/sensuality is key to dancing Salsa well. It's in the music, and the dancers must interpret that aspect of it or you may as well be dancing with a broom.

My husband and I met while Salsa dancing at the Red Parrot in NYC (which is now the Copacabana) fourteen years ago, and I must tell you that Salsa has kept our relationship strong and alive all these years (even after two children). My husband oozes sex appeal when he dances, so I ooze it right back at him. Sometimes we dance this little routine where he is checking me out, I flirt with him, then we start dancing 'til it gets hot and sweaty, sometimes we just break out laughing! We're goofing around, it's fun, it's entertaining and it keeps that flame going in our marraige! I've read that some psychologists think the divorce rate went up after partner dancing went out, and if that is so, more marriage counselors should recommend learning to dance Salsa to
their clients.

Thanks for all your great information regarding Salsa dancing. Looking forward to future articles!
- Miyoko Deschamps